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Help! What do I do?!!

I matched with this guy on spark, so we met up last night for a coffee date. Casual, low pressure, nothing fancy like an official dress up date or anything like that. I could tell we were both a little nervous at first, but then something shifted and conversation flowed. We are both early risers so we called it a night, when he left he had a smile. Overall I thought the date was really good, and it ended positively. But before I left I used the ladies bathroom. And when I was in there, another woman came in behind me and told me:

"hey, I'm so sorry to say this and it feels awkward because I saw you were on a date with that guy, but as a girls girl I have to tell you that before that guy came inside to meet you, I saw him making out in another woman's car."

Then she left!

What?! I have this amazing coffee date with this guy and I find this out! Right before he met with me?

UGH! I don't know what to do! Like it's bleak out there ya know, and I really thought we had a spark, a connection. Should I trudge forward and pretend I didn't know because maybe this guy could be the one, or should I block him and move on?

Posted May 8, 2026, 3:42 PM UTC

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