Subs who don’t do findom but interact in this space

Reposted because last time I got hit with a filter.

There are prominent subs who hang around findom spaces who are usually anti findom. Despite that :

They still send
They are often not mentally well as they spend hours commenting on findom subreddits
They are cheating on their partner
They love bomb dommes and try to get free play in DM then hit you with the I’m only into femdom
They have a victim complex because despite sending to college girls in their 40s they blame unethical dommes when I’m not sure why you’re sending to a girl as old as your eldest daughter
They are friends with subreddit mods so they run unchecked despite gaslighting and making dommes uncomfortable