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26 [M4F] Maybe this could be something real?

Dating / Relationship

Hello. This is honestly my first time putting myself out there sa dating scene, so bear with me. I figured maybe it’s time to stop acting like a retired soldier from love and actually see where things could go. Worst case scenario, dagdag lore na naman sa character development ko.

A little about me — I’m a transman, though I’ve lived most of my life as a guy already, and legally changed na rin my documents. I’m 5’5, moreno, and definitely the “date to marry” type of person. I currently live abroad, but I still visit the Philippines every year because honestly, kailangan ko rin mag-recharge bago tuluyang maging robot. Because of that, distance isn’t really a deal breaker for me. I value genuine connection more than convenience, and if the bond is worth it, I don’t mind the effort.

Personality-wise, I’m more introverted and usually more of a listener than a yapper, but once I get comfortable, madaldal naman ako. I’m mostly a homebody who enjoys simple things like spending time with loved ones, watching movies, gaming, anime. At the same time, I also have an adventurous side and enjoy adrenaline-filled experiences every now and then. I work hard, take my future seriously, and I’ve been building stability for myself through work and investments.

As for what I’m looking for, I just want someone kind, emotionally mature, honest, and easy to talk to. Someone open-minded, communicates well, and doesn’t mind dark humor because makulit ako once comfortable na. Bonus points if you’re a yapper because honestly, yappers are chef’s kiss for me. Kahit brain rot pa yan, random conspiracy theories at 2am, overexplaining your favorite game/anime/movie, or a passionate TED Talk tungkol sa pinaka-random na topic imaginable — please keep talking. I genuinely enjoy listening to people talk about the things they love.

If we genuinely vibe, I’d definitely be open to meeting in person someday.

Posted May 8, 2026, 3:43 PM UTC

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