Why is kanpur so boring...?

Hey guys, I have been here in kanpur for about 1 year now and to be honest, it kinda sucks here..... There's no good place to chill or hangout not a single place where you can click good pictures....like one day I asked a guy in my neighborhood about is there any good place to spend on during the weekend or holiday and he says ganga bairaj(man it's just a bridge where you get to see the chapri dance) chle jao z square chle jao(yar mall me kaun ghumne jata hai, I thought malls shoping k lie hote the).

Everywhere I go i find a trash dump...which stinks very bad

People here are also very backward or unsociable like some people who will talk to you will always be giving those mohalla aunty vibes or some would just never even say a hello.... For a youngster like me this place sucks also there is no dating culture at all everyone in this city is living in some other era...idk

I am not spreading any negativity about the city it's just what I have felt till now and I am putting this forward to get meaningful insights from you guys because it may be that I am the who is failing to interact or resonate with the city......

I am ready to take anything you throw at me just be honest and tellme how can I fit here