Help a Muslim sister, need advice!

Assalamualaikum. I am a 23yr old south asian muslim women who belong to a ahle hadees/ tabhleeghi family. My dad was an only child. So i grew up in a nuclear family. I like a man 29yr old and want to marry him, he belongs to prominent sunni family and a sufism follows qadirriyah clan and lives in a joint family. He checks all the boxes of what i wanted in a man i want to marry but me being a woman can think majority of the time emotionally than rationally. I want to hear advice or even how it is like from a married woman perspective and men who saw this dynamic work out, who had this dynamic. I am courting him from 6 months and i want to be a housewife as well as do side business thats not gonna affect the life he has planned for his married life, but I want genuine advice as i dont have anyone who i can get advice from and its a very important decision of my life. Any suggestions advice are welcome