I 21M am having problems in intimacy with my partner 23M. Will time solve it?

Hi.

Last few days have been a rollercoaster. I went thru sex abuse as child and teen, years ago, and very recently i reach a milestone in my life, being finally able to tell everything of it to my partner. We bonded and we are more intimate than ever.

The problem is, since i told it, i wasn't able to reach the orgasm. I am more sensible and aware of the intimacy and everything else works just fine, but i can't reach the orgasm...and i am freeking out!

Am i overthinking it and time will solve it?

Any advice?

Posted May 8, 2026, 3:48 PM UTC

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