My BF '27M' wants to travel solo but I '25F' am having a bit of mixed feelings.

I [25F] am okay with my bf [28M] travelling solo he has even did it once before dating me. I don't have any trust issues and i mean it. Not even slight trust issues. Ik he loves me alot. But he suddenly told me he is travelling. I am that kind of person who want to travel only with him. I have never travelld solo or with any of my friends without him. Ik he has his own individuality and i respect it. Ik its okay to travel alone. I am an understanding person.

But i just wanted to be feel involved before he made the bookings. Like a small discussion. He told me just 3 hrs before travelling on text. We are in a long distance like for a month because i am at my hometown.

When i told him he should have discussed earlier he said he had told me in a joking conversation. And said instead of being concerend that he is travelling solo i am just holding on to the point that he didn't discuss before. i am confused here that don't i even have the right to react the way i felt at the first instance?

I dont understand if i am expecting too much or if i am beting too toxic to him ?