Don't you ever think you have too much commitments with your time?
Hi there,
So title question.
Since I completed my studies, I keep jumping city to city, country to country, every time to adopt a new job opportunity and to try to keep my dollar running, you know the drill.
Latest move was last October. Cool salary and benefits, but also business trips.
My full month is already booked without any real input from me. Spending a whole week by my company's partner, then a week to visit my cousin for her wedding, don't forget to save time for my gf to keep our 6-month relationship in balance, and of course don't forget to sometimes make time for friends and acquaintances. I'm at the point where I believe moving in with my gf will actually bring more balance between she and I, because at least she'd be here even if I'm home even for a day, and I wouldn't need to also spare time to commute to and from hers.
Idk. In October and November I was crying to my therapist that I was all alone in a new city and now look at me trying to grasp for air.
I just want to sit at my computer and sort my huge backlog of unchecked digital life 🥲
Does it feel too much at the moment and what would you use me-time for?
Posted May 8, 2026, 3:55 PM UTC