Saturday | 11 am – 1 pm EST | via Zoom

FACILITATORS: Max + TBD

DISCUSSION PROMPTS:

• What part of a breakup tends to hurt most: losing the person, losing the role they played in your identity, losing admiration/validation, feelings of abandonment or rejection, or simply the feeling of ‘losing’ in general?
• Do you tend to idealize exes after a relationship ends, devalue them to survive the loss, or something else? Elaborate.
• How do you tend to react when an ex seems genuinely happy without you? What stories do you tell yourself about what this means?
• Have you ever stayed emotionally attached to someone mostly because you couldn’t tolerate the idea of them moving on? Say more.
• What’s something an ex was right about that you didn’t want to hear at the time?
• Have you ever been able to maintain a healthy friendship with an ex after a breakup? If so: what do you think allowed you to do that?
• What relationship patterns are you finally getting tired of repeating? How do you think you’d like to approach relationships differently?

What is Narc Club?

A confidential peer support group for people with pathological narcissism/NPD to increase self-awareness, deconstruct shame, seek and offer support, and practice vulnerability with others who get it.

Sign up to join/get the links here.

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"You know, it's funny...when you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags."

- Max 💔