Mother's day

Today morning I received a message from my mom, it was link....where Kajal in an interview she was saying about guilt to go back to work for womens....in that she says women dont back to work after having children bcz if ur children make mistakes. ..people blame mother...here the thing is I haven't misbehaved with my parents not any un known person....I didn't get y she thinks I am the villain....from my childhood I have fear of not being good daughter to my parents....I have obeyed till now....I am 18 + I need some space....only thing I asked them is I want some time before marriage....they have dream of getting thier child married...I have dream of earning and traveling, not controlled by anyone.....

Yesterday I needed to go my home bcz we had an event ...I had some work in college...after finishing it ...I got tired and I wanted to take rest ....so I took rest...I said in call I cant come....my mom n my brother started cursing me that u will never be happy in your life....u dont keep ur promise/ father respect infront of relatives....I dont no what promise I gave....suddenly my brother said you are living in someone else money....I mean my father's money he mean to say....and I dont understand if I am using his money how was he living 2 years back at the age ...of my present age....he said I am unqualified to get job ....just get back home and marry someone and get settled in life. ....

My mom is soo mad on me she curses that u won't get job....and u won't be happy...and it might sound silly she changed the dp from family pic to only three of them ....what i did...I just made a choice of getting job....I don't speak bad words ...I am attending college placement interview...I dont have friends to hang out....how am I bad child ....