I genuinely hate my mother and I threw out the flowers I got her for Mother’s Day

Yesterday I literally spent hours going to different stores to find places that would make bouquets for both my mother and my sister and after FINALLY finding one, I literally spent an hour and some change waiting to have the bouquets specifically made. I had them in water overnight and was so excited to give them to both my mother and sister.

My sister was so grateful for the card and flowers and hugged me and said thank you. However, I went to my mom’s room so exited to give them to her and even sang to her and her first words were “those are the flowers you got me? why that color? i don’t like those”. I immediately said “so you don’t want them, goodbye” and told my sister about it and my sister told my mom how rude it was of her and how I put it a lot of effort. My mom said that I “threw the flowers at her and said ‘here’” when that quite literally did not happen.

She also said that I need to learn how to properly gift give to her because she’s my mother and deserves honor. I told her to her face she would never receive crap from me again and I stand on that. The gall of her to think she deserves some garden just because she gave birth to me, when the woman who actually raised me was my SISTER. She took me on vacation every birthday, bought me Christmas and birthday gifts while my mom was at work and a lousy excuse for a parent and always talking to me crazy even in childhood. This woman is nowhere near someone who deserves fucking anything.

She literally didn’t even say happy birthday to me or bother to get me anything these past few years. She quite literally argued with me and cussed at me on my birthday 2 years ago.

While I don’t love my sister in law, she treats that girl, as the mother of her grandchildren like literal crap and has shitted on every gift she’s gotten her. I quite literally do not blame her for distancing my brother from her and moving away. I don’t!

That being said, I threw the flowers in the garbage since she claimed they were so crappy and I genuinely don’t have the energy to deal with that lady. For every future holiday or birthday, she can genuinely kiss my ass because I’m not getting her shit.