Hey everyone. I’m a young guy looking for some advice.

I’m 19 years old and my girlfriend just turned 18 last month. I know we’re very young and probably still immature, but we’ve been together for 2 years already and I really love her. I honestly can see a long future with her and having a family one day.

The situation I need some more mature advice on is her recent behavior. She’s gotten very into Instagram lately. She does a lot of makeup, takes tons of pictures, and posts pretty often. Sometimes I’m not fully comfortable with the kind of pictures she posts, but I still try to support her if that’s what she wants to show the world.

The real issue started when she brought up OnlyFans. At first it was kind of a joke, saying she wouldn’t mind making a page because it’s easy money and better than college and loans. I was shocked, but I didn’t take it too seriously at the time.

After that, I noticed she started spending a lot more time at her friend Jess’s place. I’ve never liked Jess. Back in school she was known for dating a lot of guys and had a certain reputation. When I asked my girlfriend what they do together, she just laughed and said they have a lot in common.

Later on, I found Jess’s OnlyFans page. That made me even more suspicious. A lot of things started adding up, but every time I brought something up, my girlfriend would tell me I’m overthinking and laugh it off.

Then about three days ago, my friend found my girlfriend’s Tinder profile using that DotheySwipe. We got together when we were both underage, so this can’t be some old account. When I confronted her about it, she again laughed and said that Jess made the account for her just for fun.

I love my girlfriend and I want to trust her, but all these recent situations feel very suspicious. My friends keep telling me I should leave her.

I’m really looking for advice from someone older and more experienced. From an outside perspective, if I truly love her, is this something that can be solved? Is it possible I’m genuinely overthinking and she’s just young and having some innocent fun with Jess? Or is this something serious and I’m being naive?