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WhoisRakso

Feeling lost in life (look for life advice)

Excuse my ability to organize my thoughts cuz I'm the kind of guy who never really posts stuff on social media and I barely go on this site,plus English isn't my first language.

Basically,I have turned 19 this January and is studying in college for computer science.

The transition from middle school to college is huge to me as back in middle school,every school day was like from 8-4pm and for 5 days,but at college I have more free time but also makes me more anxious as I am constantly worried about my future career cuz after all I'm not that interested in studying computer science and I only chose it because none of the programs interested me and it was slightly more bearable.

So,everyday I'm feeling aimless and wake up at 11 to 12pm which I realize is quite late and after doing chore and buying groceries It is already 3 to 4pm so in the remaining time I just start watching anime or tv shows,playing video games and prepare for dinner but I'm sick of looping this pattern.

I think doing sport might be an option but I am no sporty guy and don't even play ball games.

To add more context,I did a part time job for around 2 months and I find myself hating to work so much that the idea of dedicating 10ish years to working makes me want to throw up.

And since I am aware of my hatred to work I don't set life goals like having a family or owning a flat(fyi owning just a flat not house takes around 15 years worth of salary).

To sum up,I would like some advice or guidance.

Posted May 10, 2026, 2:09 PM UTC

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