Block in my path

I need advice and hope I get positive feedback. I ended a 5 year abusive relationship in October. I’ve been doing a lot of healing since. Along the way, I’ve found my ex in on a similar “spiritual journey”. I put in quotations because this man was actively doing things to cause harm to my children and myself. (Examples-Keeping a cell phone I paid for which deprived my children of communication while I was at work, sent an ultimate end letter to my sister for me after being told to leave her out of it, refusing to give me permission to sell a vehicle titled to both of us so I could avoid eviction and homelessness (we were both on the lease), sending money from my PayPal to a female for a hookup, starting this spiritual journey because he was reading my book and stole it (it is a gift from my deceased foster mom) I am concerned for the community and feel perverted and violated and it has caused me to have what feels like a block. I feel it keeping me feathered to him. I find myself becoming more connected with earthly things when I was finding myself more centered and grounded. I need to do something with this energy, but I’m not sure where and how to direct it to continue and move on myself spiritually.
Any insight would be appreciated.