28 M4F Looking for a nerdy bestie+gf

I am old school nerd. If you want to get into a rabbit hole of books, or movies, or anime, or old jdrama, or older songs than I am the gold mine. I prefer to have few very close friends with who I can long convo. I don't mind hanging out with strangers but if wavelengths are mismatched then it also drains me a lot more.

I have a demanding job, but I sleep way less so I always seem to have time for my interests and hanging out, especially at night. I also take long break from works to travel and volunteer as a teacher in far off places.

I am looking for someone who has bestie vibes first. If it leads to a relationship or not isn't as important for me as matching energy is. Just don't be a dry texter.

disclaimer: I am also very nsfw friendly, have a big pervert side. I also enjoy sharing ideas and opinions, and getting to know the other person more than just formal chat. And i am a sucker for long convos.