Question on splitting bills

I was looking at a post on here by someone who claimed she wanted to feel financially secure in herself and self sufficient before getting romantically involved with a partner.

I commented that I have a bill split rule while dating and after we're exclusive I will gladly pick up the tab. Apparently that's wrong if no one told me cuz women gauge if a guy is relationship material based on bills paid.

So my question to the Bengaluru:

What are the dating etiquettes a single introvert needs to know? Esp one with no social life since I work remotely.

What are these unsaid check boxes that make a parter unappealing to you?

Maybe your responses might not agree/help me but maybe someone else might find it insightful.