Women who dated guys with premature ejaculation: what was your honest experience like?

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I’m curious to hear real experiences from women who dated or slept with men who struggled with premature ejaculation. I’m not looking to shame anyone — I genuinely want honest perspectives about what the relationship and sex life was actually like over time.

Some things I’m curious about:

  • What was your first reaction when it happened?
  • Did it happen every time or only sometimes?
  • Did sex improve over time?
  • If there was a second round, was it usually better?
  • Were you still sexually satisfied overall?
  • Did your partner try to work on it or fix it?
  • Did communication/helpfulness/confidence make a difference?
  • Did frustration or resentment build up?
  • How did it affect attraction, intimacy, or the relationship?
  • Did you stay with them, lose interest, or eventually leave?
  • Aside from sex, how were they as a partner?
  • Looking back, would you date someone with that issue again?

I’d especially like to hear honest long-term experiences, not just one-night stands. Good experiences, bad experiences, mixed experiences — all welcome.

Please keep it respectful and constructive.

Posted May 10, 2026, 2:15 PM UTC

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