37 [M4F] #Oakland #California - Creative Dom seeks submissive for LTR
Do you crave dominance and sensuality on a long term basis?
I am looking for my forever person, someone that craves to be intensely sexually owned, dominated, and used but also nurtured as a component of their submissive nature. Someone that wants to build a life together based on mutual sexual satisfaction, good communication, and deep commitment.
A bit about me: I'm 37, white, 6'2" tall, lean and lanky, with long hair and trimmed beard. I have a nice thick uncut cock with big balls. STI Free and Vaccinated. I'm an atheist and not interested in having children. For vanilla hobbies I like playing and making music, live music / concerts / festivals (especially metal and electronic), PC gaming, nature, road trips & travelling, horror & occult stuff, books, movies, and art. I am equal parts wholesome and perverted. I have an absolutely filthy and creative mind and would love to share it with someone.
Kinks: anal, toys, overstimulation, objectification, deepthroat, degradation, facefucking, humiliation, cock warming, behavior modification, obedience training, bimbofication, cum play, free use, facials, cock nursing, cock worship, bondage, restraints, ball sucking, edging, ruined makeup and many more.
What I'm looking for: A woman that I can treat both as a sexual object and romantic partner. Someone that needs to be taken care of but also put into her place when necessary. Someone that craves structure and wants to be devoted to her partner with her entire mind, body and soul. I am happy to start with a more typical D/s dynamic with room for growth potentially into 24/7 TPE or whatever suits our shared goals.
Physically I have a strong preference for alternative women - alt / metal / goth / egirl types. Being heavily tattooed or pierced is a plus but not a requirement. I would prefer that you are fit, average, or skinny, I enjoy both petite and tall women.
Communication: If you think we could be a good fit. DM me with your age, physical description, and kinks so I can get an idea of who I'm talking to and I will return the favor. I am flexible about some of the things listed above, so please reach out even if you are not an exact fit.
Posted May 10, 2026, 9:56 PM UTC · locked