1.5 hrs last week and 1.75 hrs today = 3.25 hrs of 100% complaining

I live in Idaho and my mom is in MC in Arizona. Each time I talk to her on the phone, all she does is complain about everything. I can't take it any more! She's in a wonderful facility and they have amazing food and awesome activities that I know she participates in because I see the photos and videos on the facility's Facebook page. She either doesn't remember participating or she's jerking me around because when she says, "There is absolutely NOTHING to do here" and I bring up specific activities, she then says, "Oh, well, that was only a 10 minute thing" or "That was just playing around." What's making it worse is that she has always been very, very beautiful and very narcissistic. She's now saying things like she doesn't belong where she is, she doesn't fit in, everyone else is worse off than she is, these kind of things only bother her and not the other residents because she's more "with it" than they are. Eff my life. 🤬🤬🤬