I finally feel like I've done everything I can...

I tried talking to my mom about how her behavior was affecting me. She gaslit me about how things happened.

I tried sending an email about how she was making me feel. She told me I was wrong and she wasn't going to apologize for nothing.

I tried talking to her one more time and she told me this whole rocky period of our relationship has happened because I misunderstand her and it's all my fault that I'm upset.

And then she doesn't understand why I don't want to see her alone.

I feel like I've done everything I possibly can to get her to understand how her behavior upsets me. I cannot possibly be any clearer, but she refuses to accept any responsibility.