Need ABQ, NM recs

Need Albuquerque area luxury/chubby recommendations for my wife while I’m busy with family obligations

My wife and I will be in the Albuquerque area in while I deal with some family obligations during parts of the trip. Looking for genuinely enjoyable upscale/chubby recommendations so she has a great time exploring while I’m occupied.

Would love recommendations for:

- Best spas or resort day passes
- Upscale shopping/boutique areas
- Great solo-friendly lunch or dinner spots
- Cocktail bars, wine bars, lounges
- Art galleries, museums, architecture, cultural experiences
- Scenic drives or easy day trips
- Anything in the area that feels especially worth splurging on

Would also appreciate local insight on:
- Safest/nicest areas to spend time
- Areas to avoid
- Tourist traps vs actually worth it
- Experiences locals think are genuinely special

For context:
- Couple in our 20s
- Comfortable spending for quality experiences
- Prefer upscale but relaxed over ultra-luxury/formal
- We like good food, cocktails, design, unique regional experiences, and nice atmosphere

Thanks!