30[M4F][Strathcona] looking for a toy

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30M, tall, lean/muscular, tattooed, live alone. 7 inches and thick. Dosent fit into a toilet paper roll… Confident, controlling, and very patient when it comes to getting reactions.

I like slow burns dragging things out, teasing until you’re restless, keeping you right there where you need more but don’t get it yet. Edging, denial, and overstimulation are where I’m most at home. I enjoy taking control of when you get to finish, and how many times… or if you do at all.

I pay attention. The way you breathe, move, react, I learn it, then use it. The goal isn’t just getting you off, it’s making you want it more than you expected to. Into shibari and control that carries outside the bedroom too, subtle public play, remote toys, that constant awareness that I’ve got a hand on things even when I’m not touching you.

Outside of that, I like gaming, unwinding, smoking a bit of weed, im easy to talk to, love going for walks and checking cafe and art galleries. I’m looking for something ongoing where the dynamic builds and actually gets stronger over time.

You: F or FTM, open-minded, communicative, and into being teased, pushed, and kept in that addictive in-between state.

Consent, respect, and clear boundaries always come first. If you’re the type who gets a little distracted thinking about the last time you were left right on the edge… we’ll probably click.

Posted May 10, 2026, 10:00 PM UTC · locked

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