Jealous and irritated that my partner can contact nap

I’m not mad at him, but mad at myself. I can do this if I’m extremely exhausted or on the rare occasion when I feel like the house is clean enough.. but any other time my 9 week old needs to nap I feel compelled to either do a stroller walk or baby wear while doing house chores.

I’m just not patient enough to sit and pat her butt for an hour like he is! But then I’m jealous and feel like he’s resting more than me..

Can’t wait for crib naps to be more of a thing! The few times it’s happened it’s been amazing!