Mom went to the ER

I talked my mom today on the phone, wished her a happy mother's day, everything was normal, no fuss. She made no mention of feeling sick or anything like that. Granted she's 81. Turns out she went to the ER because she felt like she was "collapsing" and felt weak. But I was taking care of her in my home for the past year (til I asked her to leave) and we only had one hospital visit. It's literally always something. She chose to go across the country though, so I'm too far away to do anything or be involved, which frankly is a relief. She called me I think expecting more pity but I grey rocked her and asked her to keep me updated.