How to build confidence to talk to girls

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Hi everyone,

I'm a guy who's quite shy in front of girls. I used to be so shy, that I kept 10 feet of distance from girls.

I often git complements from girls that "you're handsome". But I was so shy and didn't know how to reply, I just kept quiet, with my eyes and face down, and nodded.

Now, I'm 23 and I still don't have enough confidence to talk to girls, which I need to mitigate.

How do I build the confidence to ask a girl an informal question, or to ask her out?

(I don't have anyone to talk to either, cuz I've graduated uni, and there are no women at my workplace.)

Posted May 10, 2026, 10:06 PM UTC

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