Advice: My ex and I broke up but she continues to send me snaps?
Me (32M) and my ex (31F) broke up near the end of February/start of March- For those who want the full story as to what happened DM me if you’re interested. It’ll be far too long of a reddit post and theres a lot of pieces and side tangents. But suffice to say we both hurt each other. Anyways- there was no contact until March 11th where she texted, which I’ll admit I could have handled a little better. Then no contact again. However few weeks later she started sending me Snapchats again. And it has been picking up again over the last few weeks. Now some, I’ll admit are probably just mass snaps that she probably sent to everyone. But on a handful of occasions, she would send snaps that were specifically for me. For instance, a little background, one of our things we used to do was collect Pokemon cards together. So some of the snaps she would send me lately were of packs or boxes or cards she pulled. I am not sure how to interpret this. I try not to read into someone sending me snaps, but it feels almost deliberate like she’s trying to get me to respond to her or reach out, based on the frequency of the snaps, both in general and ones of content specifically to me. Is she trying to “tippy toe” into trying to make contact? And this is her way of doing it since her texting me last time went subpar? Any advice would be greatly appreciated on how I should interpret this or how I should approach this. I do still love her and miss her, but I’m very conflicted because I’m still very hurt and I’m sure she is still too. Thank you all in advanced.
Posted May 11, 2026, 5:16 AM UTC