First kiss situation and idk what next?
am 26 but I didn’t ever have a first kiss or even talk to a guy like this before. I met this guy from a dating app because we both seemed to have similar intentions. From our conversations things were really good. All we did at the end was hug, where he’d squish me a bit at the end and linger. Not in a bad way I just never experienced such a thing.
He’s initiated all the plans so far, but he did ask me to come over once. I asked if we could meet up somewhere outside that time and told him it’s just not something I am comfortable with yet. We did and that’s the time he went in for a kiss. He looked super different when he went in for it. I mean we’re talking about our next plan one second and the next he goes in, we hit our teeth, and we both run off basically. To our cars.
That was the first time we ever made plans for the next time, on the spot. We just picked the day though. And I get really in my head and overthink stuff. But he followed up and we did meet. That next time he was putting his arm around me more and I think trying to be more like a couple. I got close to him but I didn’t touch him back because I got nervous. Then at the end he said we should meet on a day. I think he said a weekend day. But I met him earlier last week and I can’t tell if he wanted me to follow up and I just didn’t. I really blanked during the conversation and didn’t say—yes let’s do it. Because I was overthinking how to kiss him.
So we kissed and said bye that time. We’ve been casually conversing about unrelated things. I don’t know if I should bring it up on text. I get nervous. I asked someone for advice and she said I should just tell him that I’m inexperienced but I don’t know where to fit that in. I don’t know if he wants to see me again because I think the day he said passed. It’s either that or he meant the next week, I can’t tell what to do.
Posted May 11, 2026, 5:17 AM UTC