Guys are so hard to keep.

So recently I (19f) reconnected with this guy (19M) and he just recently ghosted me.

Some backstory. We’ve known each other for almost 4 years and he liked me for 3 of those years. I liked him too but whenever I tried to pursue a relationship with him, he always shifted it to something sexual and I wasn’t (still isn’t)ready so I would distance myself.

I tried this 3 times and got the same outcome.

Well recently when we reconnected he had changed, didn’t like the thought of being overly sexual, wanted to get to know his potential partner better, just everything I’ve ever wanted from him. So I decided to shoot my shot and hope for the best.

He said yes and we began talking again.

I was genuinely happy, and just really excited to be in a relationship where someone didn’t want me for my body. Everything was going good for all of a few days. I texted him one day and never received a reply back. I chalked it up to him being busy like an idiot so I texted again and that’s when I knew it was intentional.

I didn’t cry or anything but I was actually hurt by this because, I’ve never been a complicated person. If he didn’t want to be with me he could’ve just said that and I would’ve respected it.

I just don’t know what I did to be hurt like that for no reason. But yeah I just wanted to know if I’m being dramatic or something. Thank you in advance.