Help! 2023 Passport Elite vs 2023 Pilot Elite…. Which one should I buy?

Trying to decide between the 2023 passport elite and the 2023 pilot elite. I don’t need a third row but would probably keep the third row down and just have extra space in the pilot. I know the pilot is a redesign year so curious what others experience have been. I do like that the Pilot has a newer engine and a 10 speed transmission versus the passport. I also like that the pilot scores better inside impact.

Both cars have about 40,000 miles and are certified.
I am mostly looking for a car that will be reliable and safe.

Anyone care to weigh in? Please help me decide or let me know what factors you used so you could decide.