my friend ghosted me over the show heated rivalry

I know this sounds crazy but it’s true, my bestfriend ghosted me because I sent her a post that contained both actors from Heated Rivalry. She watched the show and has had me watch 2 episodes, and because I value my friends’ in streets as much as my own I watched 2 episodes with her. She told me don’t send HR posts again. I thought she was joking because she literally posts about the show and her username was a reference to one of the characters. So I send another post saying sorry ik u said don’t send but this is funny asf. The post wasn’t even about the show it was just one of the actors in a shitpost. After I sent that, she stopped replying to my messages. TikTok, Instagram, Twitter. Everything I sent was left on read. After a week I was like Ok obviously something is going on but I didn’t want to say anything. She was posting on her story everyday though despite not replying to me. On March 31 I dmed her”#whatido” bc I didn’t want to confront her harshly if I was just misreading being ignored so that was more like light hearted? Anyways she said wym? So I was like relieved like omg! I thought u were ignoring me. She said yea I was I didn’t want to lash out. Like what? So I said why u mad? And she left me on seen then removed me from viewing her story THEN deactivated. Like what?? Like that’s literally my bestfriend and I got ignored over sending an insta post?
I noticed just a bit ago she reactivated her account but blocked me? I’m just so lost. We are both literally 20, so I’m still, after a full month, can’t wrap my head around any of this. I feel like reaching out somehow but I’m not even sure where to start. Every time I think about it I feel sad then angry. Is it even worth trying to fix our friendship? I just need advice, I’ve asked a few of my friends and everyone has given mixed answers.

Posted May 11, 2026, 5:31 AM UTC

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