how do we feel about men being petty vs women

truth be told, i think being petty is stupid regardless but we are ALL guilty of it and i’m sure we will all keep doing it in certain circumstances. but i still want to know how we feel about men being petty vs women being petty. IMO men being petty just make me think “little bitch boy”, imo men should be the calmers (yes i know it’s not a word, but it fits), the peace to their woman, and women as we know are fucking crazy (i am a woman and i am crazy) sometimes i can be petty but most times i like to think a lil more logically. anyways my man and i disagree and im curious about your opinions.

psa i also believe woman should also be the calmers to their men