Realistic AD situation?

I’ve decided to do the AP retail journey and message my AD that I’m willing to do an ROO + steel RO combo. I’m happy to buy both, I like both.

My main ask was “what is the timeline to steel RO as a 2nd?”

Their answer surprised me because they simply asked “which watch I’d like as a 1st?” I had assumed ROO was required, but they kindly explained that’s not necessarily the case.

At that point I said I’d like the steel RO if that option is on the table. They said ok and will let me know.

Everything I’ve heard on this thread and elsewhere tells me steel RO is not a 1st. Is this realistic?

For background context — I have met them in-person, stayed in touch, talked about some milestones and shared some details about my business etc. It’s probably clear I’m not a flipper at this point.