How does it feel to have fans?

I don't think I'll ever get to that point but I'm a married woman (although I don't really show it on socials, I do tell people privately).

But these same people also like to flirt with me, sending me kisses emoji. Asking to have a private video call with me or going out alone with me for whatever reasons possible.

It makes me feel icky.

Then I remembered on one of a musician's interview, a girl talked about her unconformity when she received comments like "marry me". Even though it came from her fans.

Am I supposed to feel okay with flirts if I become a known musician?