Need help with what I can do
Throw away account to not have this traced back to me.
Sorry if rambling, I haven’t had proper sleep for weeks and feeling quite off.
I need some advice on how I can move forward, have been living in Switzerland with my Swiss husband for over 5 years. I’m a stay at home mom and currently pregnant. I found out that my husband has been cheating on me with multiple people and isn’t taking responsibility for it. Always an excuse.
Emotionally I don’t feel safe, been having early contractions due to all the stress and have had to eat medicine to calm my body down. My cervix keeps getting shorter and there’s a risk that this baby is born too early if I stay in this situation.
There’s a bunch of other things too but this has just been the final drop that made my cup flow over.
What do I need to do to leave and get my own place for my kids and I? I don’t have my own income so I can’t just rent something on my own. Do I go to my Gemeinde? Talk to a lawyer? What’s normally the first step on getting out of something like this?
Thank you for any advice in the right direction
Posted May 12, 2026, 8:15 AM UTC