How do you actually keep a house tidy with kids? I feel like I’m suffocating.

Hello everyone. I’m reaching out because I’m honestly at my limit. Basically, ever since having kids, my house has become a total disaster zone. I’ll spend hours sorting everything out and getting it sparkling clean, only for it to be completely trashed again within a couple of days.

I absolutely hate living like this. The constant clutter is starting to feel suffocating like I don’t even have a single corner where I can just sit and breathe. I’ve always been someone who thrives on order and cleanliness, so this level of chaos is really taking a toll on my mental health.

To the parents who actually have a system that works: how are you managing all the stuff? I’m talking toys, books, clothes, shoes, medicines, snacks… all of it. I’m desperate for any practical advice or organization hacks you can share. I’d be so incredibly grateful for any help at all.