How Many People Do You Have In Your Current Roster?
So I used to be waaay too awkward to be able to get much game at all, but as my self-confidence grew (and I realised that quirkier, nerdier types are not only more fun but also way easier to get with) my roster of regular hookups started growing.
I didn't even really intend it, I was getting over my ex and just sort of kept pushing myself to get more satisfaction. Very healthy I know, lol. But then I realised the other day when letting my housemate know I'd have a friend over to play this week, that she'd lost track of exactly how many I had.
Our conversation, genuinely, went something like:
"Oh, is it the teacher again?"
"Nah"
"The writer?"
"Nope"
"The artist??"
"Nooo"
etc. until I had named 7 people total. I genuinely did not realise I had become such a slag aha, but it was fun realising. Now it's not like every one of these people is coming over every week, the least frequent is probably once every quarter due to how often they're away, and the most regular is once a week.
So I'm curious, how many regulars do you all have? How big are your rosters?
Posted May 12, 2026, 8:25 AM UTC