Day 3

My girlfriend (28F) and I (29M) have been together for 4 years. Lately — maybe for the past month or two — she’s been acting cold and distant. I could definitely feel that she was losing attraction and pulling away. To be fair, I had become a little overinvested in the relationship over the past six months.
But I’ve had bad experiences in past relationships where I chased and begged, so I knew I wasn’t going to repeat the same mistake again. Instead, I became silent and indifferent to her pulling away.
Now it’s been 3 days since we last talked. Technically, the last person to text was her, but it was just a one-word dry reply.
Man, it hurts like hell. Two months ago, she was asking me how much I loved her and saying she couldn’t wait to have a child with me, and now she’s acting like this.