I don't understand the hate for Kyle's DJ career

I am confused how Amanda is upset Kyle is out there grinding and hustling. He was always a entrepreneur. The guy has an MBA and is a super smart hard worker.

Amanda says she "Didn't marry a DJ".

Kyle did what any person would do when their business is struggling. Not take a paycheck and find other avenues to make money. His was DJ'ing.

No different than a regular person getting laid off and turning to doordash and uber. I am sure Kyle and Amanda's lifestyle isn't cheap but to clown him for wanting to be a DJ and get paying gigs in Vegas is a jerk move.

What income is Amanda bringing in? Seems to be no proof of occupation for her under than that swimsuit colab from two years ago.

Shout out to Ben during the dinner beating where he tried to speak up for Kyle by saying getting a manager is a good thing. Wish more people heard Ben at the table.