Am I right to be upset?

I had organised an elopement for me and my partner, I sent him a message saying “we are getting married”, these are his responses, I feel hurt and upset, am I in the wrong for doing it like this? I just got over excited I suppose

Ok. I swear to god if I’ve just been proposed to by text with a picture from Google I don’t think I’ll ever get over it.

Why do I feel like you’ve just royally fucked up?

Not what you expected? On What planet does someone feel loved and special with that? I may not want the big wedding or lots of attention, but no one deserves that

just fyi. November the 6th is a total no go now because of this