30M – Lonely loser in need of people to talk to.
Social anxiety and depression have basically left me no better off now at 30 than I was when I left high school. I don’t feel like I’m a ‘real adult’ and have basically lost the ability to connect with anyone because of it.
I can’t find the drive to actually go out and engage with people because I don’t really feel like the type of person people want to be around. But at the same time, I know an overall lack of social interaction is a part of my problem.
I don’t want to be a downer around others, but that’s just kind of who I am at the moment This is all a bit depressing I know, I don't want it to be but that's kind of where my life is right now. If you've managed to make it through all this and still feel compelled to chat I'd love to hear from you
Posted May 12, 2026, 2:36 PM UTC