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Anyone else told they look androgynous

Rant

I’ve had children ask me “are you a boy or a girl”. I’m AFAB, identify as female and want to look like a woman. Instead I look androgynous. Big hooked nose. Masculine face against my will. I try to dress cute and I look like a man in a dress. My voice isn’t deep but I sound like a mix between fuckin Kermit and a prepubescent boy. I even tried like voice training. But I think it’s my giant hooked nose.

I hate that even in full makeup and a dress I still look awful. Gangily and my proportions are just so off. I dress feminine and get called sir constantly. It’s not the way I dress im literally called sir in a full face of makeup.

Posted May 12, 2026, 2:39 PM UTC

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