Advice

So let me preface this, I’m not a femboy, but I’m a man. An average man I think, but I need help about this femboy I met. Backstory for all of this, I dated two femboys and all they cared about was well, sex. Only sex and never me as a person, it was tiring. Then lo and behold, A third one pop up just recently after like six months of being “single” we talked a good amount but he’s different, so I have romantic feelings for him? No, because I don’t know him as a person but at the same time, he’s someone I want to protect, it’s weird because when we started talking more, he opened up his insta account not too long ago. I thought he was a bot but turns out, he’s not, he’s genuinely a cool guy. Now where am I going with this? I talked with him for 2-3 days straight and I think he might’ve caught some feelings towards me, he started saying things like, “I wanna be your boywife” and started calling me darling. I just played along and went, “okay darling!” All of that but, he started to really get into me, he started sending me kissing messages and all of that. I think he’s becoming desperate and he himself says that he craves attention but at the same time… he talks about how he only trusts me and cares about me. That and he wants to cuddle with me all the time if I was there with him. I don’t think he’s in love with me, I think he just wants someone to see him because you all know this by now because well, it’s with almost every femboy. He has a bad family, they’re homophobic, don’t care about him and really wants him out and only tolerate his existence. That’s why he’s so desperate probably but I don’t take advantage of that, when he told me that he’s in heat and stuff, I told him, “calm down, are you even sure you want this? I don’t want to take advantage of you, you need to breathe and think.” And he felt awful, but it’s not like I hate him for it, I just don’t want him to be taken advantage of for his body. He started getting sick DMs about men wanting to… let’s just say have their way with him. I don’t want to see him romantically but I swear every time he talks to me, my heart rate increases like I want to help him as much as I can. He wants to do the same because well, I also have a shit family, my parents never truly loved me, only my academics, they only had me because I had “potential” never me as a person. They hated me when I failed even physically and mentally abusing me. I wasn’t even hugged by anyone by my family, only really give a slap to the face crying. I don’t want him or anyone else to be depressed, to not be seen. I’m telling y’all this to give a perspective on me and how he is, I’m comfortable with me being this open but for him? I can’t say much because it’s his story not mine. Anyways, I hope someone sees this and just helps me out with this rocky fucking situation.