He's found a new target and already mirrors her social media behavior. He performs like a clown for her and adapts her interests and style. He claims he's healed his patterns but doesn't see all he does is repeating the same unhealthy shit just with a new person
I just wonder if he'll get to be happy and I get to be sad and broken hearted forever... But let me explain a bit.
Back in October 2025, my FA ex rebounded three weeks after dumping me. He ended the rebound 3 months later saying it's not good for him and that he didn't develop feelings and that he needs to be on his own. Said he is not happy.
Now, seven months after dumping me, he found a new target. He's mirroring her social media behavior excessively, and behaves like a clown to please her. It's so sad. He's repeating all the unhealthy patterns and all the shit he claimed to see in our relationship (because in his opinion, it was cause him and I are simply incompatible, even though we were together 7,5 years. He is convinced his nervous system works just well and that it's all easy and dandy if only he finds another person... ). Also, this new girl looks like a guy honestly and is generally a massive downgrade. She's super trashy and looks like having a couple of deseases if I'm honest (I don't want to sound mean though). She's beginning of 20s while he's turning 31 in a month, and she's like a disco ball being hyperactive and completely attention addicted, non stop posting herself and filming herself on Instagram.. While he's autistic, needing a lot of "me time" and hates having to take photos and videos all the time lol. Their last date was a cucumber eating competition where they also competed imitating sea gulls (yes, you read that right) and he went all along that stuff and looked SOOOO inauthentic and unhappy deep down.
I honestly wait now to get my popcorn and see his total downfall. He threw me away when all I did was loving him and chosing him again and again, even forgiving him lying and cheating, and supporting him emotionally and financially besides him being the immature, depressive, dysfunctional selfish blop he is. He's also overwhelmed constantly, in relationships as well as in every day life, and he has a weakness for drugs and loves drinking and numbing himself in all kind of unhealthy ways possible as he's unhappy with his non existent career, has no dreams of his own, so hanging with his druggy friends is the only thing he's doing. He thinks he's upgrading as he sees himself as cool with these kind of people (again.. He's turning 31 in a month).
Besifes him being him, I loved this manchild. But he's put me through hell, humiliated me (and himself) in multiple ways, cheated on me, treated me extremely badly post break up and even brought me in active danger. So honestly? Can't wait him crushing eventually. I don't ever want him back as I realized what massive loser he is. What I want is him to regret having thrown the best thing away that ever happened to him.
Will he get what he deserves in the end? What yall think?
Posted May 12, 2026, 2:42 PM UTC