Options on where to find chat partners as ftm?

Hi

I was wondering if any of you guys know a good place to find sexting partners as gay ftm?

I considered trying Grindr, but it has horrible reviews from other trans men, so I'm hesitant about that. I also tried to join Fetlife, but it requires an age verification. I'm only willing to do a selfie, but it thinks I'm under 18(which I'm not, I just look young). Other option is to post my ID, but I don't trust this system enough for that.

This is probably a frequent question in this sub, but I couldn't find any posts discussing these sites/apps. If there is, I would appreciate the link.