30 F - Always in competition with this another women

People constantly compare me to this other woman in the same social group both us desi, even though we have different personalities and approaches. The comparisons create tension between us, turning every interaction into an unspoken competition. We rarely support each other because it always feels like one of us is being measured against the other. Small achievements become contests, and outside opinions only make the rivalry stronger. Instead of mutual respect, there is frustration, jealousy, and pressure to outdo one another. Over time, the constant comparisons have damaged any chance of friendship, leaving us stuck in a cycle of resentment, insecurity, and competition whenever we cross pat