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42 [M4F] #NorthPark - Are rimjobs too dirty or incredibly intimate? Which side are you on?..

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I get it, this fetish isn't for everyone but I've been really getting into the kink of meeting a woman who loves passionately rimming a guy or at least curious to turn it into a secret passion.. I can't say I'm looking for a serious relationship right at the moment, but it could be thrilling to start something casual and friendly with someone who matches my kinky curiosities.

I could even be open to hanging out on occasions where giving an amazing rimjob is the only thing on the menu.. though I would certainly be open to more kinky activities happening between us.

Maybe once we build enough comfort and trust, we can start having the occasional no stress, easy going hangs that perhaps gets a little kinky between us. I'd be down to invite you over at times to eat a nice dinner, watch movies, maybe play a videogame if that's your thing and see where the night takes us.

Personally, I'd even find it hot if this is just a dirty little secret between us. Maybe you consider yourself to be this proper, sophisticated, professional woman who has a few secret cravings. People in your life having no idea you'd be capable of being used by someone in such a way. Maybe sometimes we'll see each other in public places, and we won't approach each other, I'll just give you a little smirk knowing where that naughty tongue of yours was just days earlier.

As far as hygiene goes.. I will absolutely be very willing to be freshly groomed and showered right before any hangout begins, whether before you come over, or after you're here so you can confirm. I also have a sneaky public play kink, if we ever feel like exploring this kink outside.

I know this is a pretty dirty kink, but I am a pretty normal, chill and respectful guy who is looking for a mature and respectable woman with a secret dirty side of her own.. Here's a little bit about me:

I'm not married and have no kids. I do have an awesome dog who you might be lucky enough to meet if/when you ever come over.. I am 5'7 about 160lbs with a pretty fit build and working on it.. I have good hygiene and completely std free (I'd like to stay that way and down to retest before anything happens between us). I usually have a little facial hair, a hairy chest and keep myself well groomed in all the right places.

I'm overall a pretty easy going, rational, common sense guy with a witty, sarcastic sense of humor who's pretty much impossible to offend. I'm also pretty open-minded and non-judgemental, so you'll never get any kind of kink shaming from me. I'm not someone who is interested in argumentative or confrontational people, I've learned to weed out the negative energy and negative people from my world and only interested in stress free, good times from people.

Speaking of weed.. I am cannabis and occasionally shroom friendly, just to throw that out there. Not something we ever have to engage in, but could be on the table if we inevitably ever want to add it into the mix. Never been interested in any kind of harder drugs.

I'll assume anyone still reading this has at least some interest in exploring this idea and don't hesitate to reach out. No rush or pressure, we can chat and see if the compatibility seems right between us. Hit me up and tell me a few basics about yourself and maybe a bit about your experiences with this kink. Looking forward to playing with you.

Posted May 12, 2026, 2:43 PM UTC

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