She had a great time but is unsure
I went on a date (22m) from a match on hinge, thought the date went well got her flowers and we went to dinner. I made her laugh and teased her a bit. After I asked her if this was something she was interested in continuing? She said yes it is and we talked of potentially meeting again 2 days after. Over text, (first time i texted her number after giving it to me) told her I had a great time and to drive home safe, and she said the same, but due to work I had to go to bed early so i told her good night and said “talk to you tomorrow?” and she said “i’m not sure, i had a great time but i’m not sure right now.”
I am just more confused by this kind of behavior than I am distraught. In my opinion I think she had a skewed expectation/vision of me before actually meeting due to my social media presence and I failed that vision. Right now my expectations are that I won’t see this person again due to this response. It definitely sucks because we only really saw each other for an hour and a half and it feels like the bud is being cut before it blooms, but i would like a second opinion.
Posted May 12, 2026, 2:44 PM UTC