Do you think you should stop forcing your children to dress in certain ways?

I hate being told how to dress. Once my late mother annoyed me by saying I should've worn a buttoned shirt for a restaurant on her birthday. It greatly annoyed me and my father sided with her. Also my parents forced me to wear jeans at home during birthday parties at home but ironically enough they still allowed me to keep my sweatshirt. Also my father forced me to wear black at my mother's funeral. It really sucked. My father had literally told me I could go how I wanted

I strongly advise you parents to stop telling your children how to dress. In fact I strongly advise you to stop forcing dress codes on events you host. People are gonna be mad