I haven’t heard from him in over a week since his relative passed ?

I’m 27F and he’s 29M been dating for 3 months so it’s still pretty new.

It was like overnight this happened. I’ve never had him go cold turkey and not hear from him at all. haven’t heard from him since last Monday so it’s been 8 days now.

His grandma passed very quickly. Went into the hospital Thursday, hospice, and died on Monday. I’ve dealt with grief and very hard to handle people in my life passing especially last year.

I even told him about all that. He and I were legit on a date when he got the call and had to leave. Now I don’t wanna sound selfish I feel so bad for him. But I’ve just dealt with ghosting in the past so I have a bit of trauma from it. I texted him I’m so sorry get home safe that Monday. Let him be and then just sent a short don’t need to rush to reply to this text on Friday just thinking of you and if you need anything I’m here, sending love.

Is there anything else I should do? I see a future with him and honestly haven’t fell for someone like this in years. So I don’t wanna come off selfish like oh is he ghosting me and sound immature. I have noticed guys hide there emotions in past relationships which makes it hard at times.

I just don’t know how to not spiral by not hearing from him ? I know he has a lot on his plate. But I can’t help thinking after 8 days of no response he’s changed his mind about me