Secrets Bahia Mita vs Unico 20 105 (Riviera Nayarit)

Hi all -- my best friend and I are trying to choose between Secrets Bahia Mita and Unico 20 105 (Riviera Nayarit) to celebrate our 40th birthdays!!

We've been looking at both a lot and are pretty torn between the two.

Vibes are 40th birthday girls trip celebration, cocktails, pool, reading by the pool/ spa/ some adventures

Current assessment is like

Unico:

Smaller and chill

Adventures on site look great

Fun experiences at the resort

Secrets:

More dining and entertainment

More pools

Better rooms

We like that both are adult only but are aware there's some overlap at secrets with Dreams.

What is everyone's opinion? This will personally be my first all-inclusive.

TIA!!